Saturday, February 27, 2016

I am a WOMAN

Dear diary,

Its safe to say that I have had a crappy week, my body wasn't having it and my mind was playing its own tricks, writing its own fictional stories. My tummy was hurting for two days and I had to break my fasts to take some remedies.

However, in its adventure my mind got me wondering about sacrifices women make in life. Where we are coming from women used to be home makers, so basically rare children and take care of the house hold and the husband would be the breadwinner. But slowly the situation started changing and its in its full blown colors now. What happens now is that a woman is supposed to give birth to babies, make sure the house hold is in order, cook for her husband and children or at least make sure the food is properly cooked, make sure the house is clean especially her bedroom, make sure clothes are washed and ironed including even boxers sometimes. at the same time a woman is also supposed to be a breadwinner. No man wants to marry a woman who doesn't bring income to the family. So on top of all that a woman is supposed to do something to bring in an income>

Saying that such situation is stressful is an understatement of the year. And without forgetting the most important part of all"being a whore and sexy in the bedroom for her husband" women are born slaves, looked upon as such and dies as such. When a couple can not have a child the society automatically assumes its a woman problem, never the mans though, and dear kind men never volunteer to set the record straight even when they know the truth.

As sad as it is, this is a situation all over the world, and it has been accepted as a way of living and the way things should be. To make the matters worse men get all the praise for anything good that comes from the family. You build a nice house its all The man, successful kids, nice car, even when a woman cooks nice food its all a man's good work. Dare a woman fail to reach these standards and an entire world will know what kind of a failure that woman is. The world is not a fair place.

Yours Truly
Rubi