Dear Diary,
I have been thinking a lot lately about women who simply depend of their husbands or spouses for everything. The reason being I have a friend, well sort of a friend, a muslim lady who does nothing but be a wife. I dont mean to disrespect housewives in anyway, but this particular lady is unique because she has two maids to take care of her two kids, and yet she does nothing but spend more and ask for some more. Her husband has married a second wife, and he already has two extra babies with her. So now he only thing that both women do is fight and use their instagram accounts to send each other messages and threats.
The husband has been abusing her, and to the point of givinng her islamic divorce, they call it one divorce or something of the sort. But, she stayed, she posts pictures of her husband on instagram and the other woman does the same, they compete. So that's why I found myself thinking about women who sit around and do nothing. And it got me wondering; would she have stayed if she was financially independent I guess we will never know. But one thing is for sure, I never want to be in her situation,, I never want to find out what it feels like being humiliated and humiliating myself infront of millions.
I have officially started working hard that never before. because mosty I want to be able to fend for myself and myson just incase anything happens. I never wish such pain upon myself. I am still trying to find my bearings, but I have to admitt my office has not bee doing very well, partly because I dont spend enough time here I gues and partly because business is just tough. I pray all goes well for me
Yours truly,
Rubi
